Zizindikiro zolakwika zachisoni kuchokera kwa mlendo zomwe ndizosavuta kugwirira mtsikana aliyense

Mungamvetse bwanji kuti munthu amakukondani? Tanthauzo la kumvera mtima ndi manja, malingaliro, pokambirana, machitidwe ndi zochita zathu. Kuyimba ndi SMS kuchokera kwa wachikondi. Upangiri wa zamavuto. Mafunso Ofunsidwa Kawirikawiri. Zochita pambuyo podziwitsa ena chisoni.

Atsikana okha ndi omwe amatha kubisa malingaliro awo mwaluso. A Guys amapereka chisoni ndi mawu ochepa kapena mawu oyenera. Mnyamata aliyense amapangidwa kuti azitha kuthandiza koma kukhala pafupi ndi bwenzi lake. Chifukwa chake chisonyezo choyamba cha ngati munthu amakukondani ndi zochita zake.

Palibe amene adaletsa ulemu ndi kupikisana mwachidule, ngati munthu wokuthandizani akuvula zovala zanu, kuvala zovala zanu, kutsegula chitseko patsogolo panu, onetsetsani kuti mumasamala za iye.

Chisamaliro chake, kufunitsitsa kuthandiza ndikutsata wokondedwa wake kukufotokozerani zoona zonse za momwe munthu amamvera. Amuna ndi ojambula, ndipo ngati mukufuna wina mungayesetse kusangalatsa.

Momwe mungadziwire zachifundo mumnyamata adakali aang'ono?

• Kusuntha. Mnyamata amene mumamukonda sadzakubwezerani kapena kubwereka. Ingotsatira chilankhulo cha thupi lake, ndipo mudzamvetsa zonse.
• Momwe zimawonera. Ngati angakuyang'anireni kwakanthawi kocheperako kuposa ena, ndiye kuti mukumvera.
• Kukambirana. Nkhani zonena za iwe sizimangosonyeza kudzikonda. Mwina mnyamatayo adangosangalala ndikuyamba kukambirana zomwe akudziwa bwino.
• Kukhudza. Nthawi ina, mungamve kuti amamukonda, chifukwa adzayesa kukugwira. Poterepa, akazi onse azolowera chizolowezi samayanja.
• Kulankhula ndi atsikana ena. Amatha kukopana ndi ena kuti awone zomwe mukuchita, kotero ngakhale mukulankhula ndi wina, amakuyang'anani.
• Zomwe Amakonda. Ngati munthu amadziwa pasadakhale kuti mumakonda kanema ndipo amalankhula za momwe adaonera mu kanema komanso momwe adaukondera, ndiye kuti izi ndizokwanira kukuyamikirani.
• Chisangalalo. Kufuna kuwoneka bwino, munthuyo akhoza kukhala wamantha pang'ono.
• Maonekedwe a nkhope. Anthu amakhala chida cha mayendedwe a omwe amakonda.
• Nthabwala. Ngati mukunena nthabwala zake, ndiye kuti safuna kukukhumudwitsani, akungodikirira kuti mumwetulire.
• Kuyamikira. Ngati munthu waona kuti mwapanga zodzikongoletsera zatsopano, dziwani kuti mosakayikira akukupondani.

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati cholembera chikugwirizana nanu?

Zinthu zosonyeza kuti amakumverani chisoni:

1. Mnyamata aliyense angakupatseni zoyamikira.
2. Ngati m'mbuyomu mnyamatayo adalemba kulemba, ndipo patapita nthawi adayamba kutsatira mawu ndi zolakwika, ndiye kuti ndichizindikiro chabwino.
3. Palibe mawu osagwirizana!
4. Pali chidwi chochititsa chidwi m'moyo wanu.
5. Poyerekeza abwenzi ake ndi inu, amakukweza.
6. Manambala nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana, pomwe amakumbukira kusowa kwanu m'malo ena.
7. Amalemba kuti adakusowani.
8. Madandaulo okhudzana ndi atsikana ena (pokhapokha pamaphunziro amakono).
9. Kusonyeza chidwi ndi zomwe mumakonda kuchita.
10. Kulemberana makalata kumayamba.
11. Ikugwira ntchito patsamba lanu.
12. Kuyeserera, kuyesa kuwoneka ngati koseketsa.

Dziwani ndi zozizwitsa!

Ngati mwamunayo ali wolimba mtima, mudzapeza chidwi chake pa mphindi iliyonse, koma ngati muli amantha, musakhumudwe ngati mnyamatayo atayang'ana kumbali. Mumtima amatha kukukhalirani ngati inu, pokhapokha sangathe kufotokoza zakukhosi kwake.

Ngati mukuwona kuti ana amunamuna akutsitsidwa akamayang'ana pa inu, khalani odekha - ichi ndi chotsimikizika chachifundo komanso chikhumbo.

Ngati maso a mnyamatayo akuyang'ana pamphumi panu, ndiye kuti ali ndi chidwi chochita bizinesi yanu. Ndipo ngati ikuwala kuchokera kumaso mpaka pamilomo ndi kumbuyo - dziwani kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro chaubwenzi. Chinsinsi cha kumvera chisoni ndikumayang'ana modekha komanso kumwetulira.

Mukakhala pagulu la anzanu kapena kuphwando, nthawi zonse mumakhala mumasomphenyawo, chifukwa munthu wachikondi samalola "zofunkha" zake kuti zisaoneke.

Ndi manja! Manja ake amatha kunena zambiri!

Munkhaniyi, malo ndi ofunikira. Tsatirani machitidwe ake akakumana ndi inu kapena akuperekezeni mukalowa m'chipindacho kapena kuyenda mumsewu. Manja awa amatha kukuuzani zambiri.

• Zovala zowongoka - Chifukwa chake amafuna kuti azioneka wokongola m'maso mwanu kapena amawopa kuyang'ana zopusa ndi inu.
• Mwendo wotsegulidwa. Mnyamata akaika phazi lake kutsogolo, zikutanthauza kuti salimba mtima mokwanira ndipo akufuna thandizo. Pamaso panu, ali ndi nkhawa.
• Mapewa owongoka. Chifukwa chake, mnyamatayo amayesa kuwoneka wamtali komanso wolimba pafupi ndi mtsikanayo.
• Kugwedeza kumbuyo kwa mutu uku ukuyankhula. Chizindikiro chotsimikizika chakuti mumamupangitsa manyazi komanso wamanyazi. Anyamata achikondi nthawi zonse amakhala osiyana mosiyana ndi masiku onse, chifukwa chake musachite mantha.
• Anakweza nsidze. Ngati mukuwona nsidze zokwezeka mukamacheza, mutha kupuma mofatsa - amakukondani.
• Pakani masaya kapena chibwano. Zizindikiro zakusangalatsidwa komanso kufuna kusangalatsa inu.
• Manja pa lamba . Munthuyu akufuna kuwonetsa nyonga komanso kudzidalira.
• Milomo yogawanika - umboni kuti mawonekedwe anu amasangalatsa mnyamatayo.
• Amasenda tsitsi. Kufuna kuoneka kokongola.
• Imapotoza batani. Akumva chisangalalo ndi chikhumbo chili pafupi nanu.
• Manja pa lamba - kufuna kusangalatsa.

Zizindikiro Zodziwika za Sympathy

Mutu wamaubwenzi pakati pa amuna ndi akazi nthawi zonse wakhala ukugwirizana. Chifukwa chake, ntchito zambiri zabwino zama psychologist zimadzipereka kwa icho. Mutha kuwerenga buku la “Momwe mungadziwire kuti munthu, yemwe amakukondani, amakukondani. Zizindikiro, upangiri, kuwerenga maganizo. " Ndipo ndilankhula zomwe ndapeza, zomwe ndidazichita.

Kuti zikhale zosavuta kuthana ndi malingaliro a munthu wina, muyenera kulabadira mwachangu zizindikiritso zoonekeratu zachifundo. Kuti muwagwire, simuyenera kukhala akatswiri amisala. Kuphatikiza apo, "zisonyezo" zoterezi zimawerengedwa, ngakhale ngati simukuyankhulana nokha ndi munthu wina.

Ndipo choyambirira, maso amapereka chisoni. Palibe chodabwitsa kuti iwo amati ndi kalilore wa moyo wathu. Kuchokera pakuwonekeratu mutha kunena kuti mnyamata wokondweretsa alibe chidwi nanu. Ngati akumvera ena chisoni, nkovuta kuti munthu achotse maso ake kwa mtsikanayo. Samangomuyang'ana, nthawi zina mwakachetechete, komanso amayesa kumukopa.

Mnyamata wachichepere chomvera chisoni, osafuna, akufuna kuyandikira pafupi ndi mutu wa kupembedza kwake. Safuna kutembenukira kwa mtsikanayo, amakhala kuti angakumane ndi iye. Nthawi yomweyo, mnyamatayo amayesa kuwoneka bwino. Chifukwa chake, amawongola mapewa ake, amawongola tsitsi lake ndi zovala zake.

Nthawi zambiri wokondweretsa, amasilira mtsikana amene amamukonda, mosazindikira amayamba kutengera machitidwe ake. Atangogwira tsitsi lakelo, dzanja lake likufika kumutu. Munthu yemwe ndi wokongola kwa iye amatenga foni yam'manja - ndipo mwamunayo amatha kumangoyendetsa yekha.

Momwe mungachitire gawo loyamba

Zimakhala bwino munthu akamalimba mtima n’kumayang'ana njira zodziwira munthu amene amamukonda. Ngati anzanu aphatikizika, amatha kuyambitsa kucheza, kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi uliwonse. Koma izi sizichitika nthawi zonse!

Zachidziwikire, ife akazi nthawi zambiri timaganiza kuti ndikosavuta kuti mwamuna achitepo kanthu. Kodi izi zilidi choncho? Inde, ingoikani m'malo mwa munthu wamkulu! Kodi simukudziwa ngati amakonda kusadandaula, bwanji kuti musawope kulephera?

Chifukwa chake, palibe cholakwika ndi gawo loyamba lakelo. Kupatula apo, ndichidziwitso chofananira cha mayi amene nthawi zina chimasowa nthumwi ya munthu wolimba. Kodi mungayambitse bwanji kucheza? Mutha kungodzidziwikitsa nokha, makamaka ngati mumakhala ndi kampani wamba.

Sikuti aliyense amatha kuchita zinthu mwachindunji kotero kuti ndimaona kuti ndi zachilengedwe. Kenako mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru zochitika zina. Zosankha zofala kwambiri: ku Institution, mutha kupeza ndandanda ya zokambirana ndi wophunzira mnzanu, muofesi, tchulani nthawi zina zogwira ntchito, ndipo pamapeto pake, mumsewu, mufunse kuti ndi nthawi yanji kapena mukafika ku library.

Ndikukutsimikizirani, ngati mumakhala wokondweretsa komanso wokongola kwa munthu wamwamuna, adzatenga zokambirana mosangalatsa kapena kuchita manyazi, achitapo kanthu kuti amudziwitse kwambiri. Ndipo ngati sichoncho? Palibe chodandaula nacho! Mutha kungokhala abwenzi abwino osakhala ndi nkhawa kuti munthu wina azikulakwirani.

Zomwe mungaphunzire pakulankhulana

Ndipo, zowona, pokambirana ndi bambo wachinyamata ndizosavuta kuonetsetsa kuti akukukondani. Pa kulumikizana, gululi limamvetsera mosamalitsa ku mawu aliwonse a vis-a-wake ndipo mpaka limapinda pang'ono mpaka mutu wakuwuza.

Pose anena zambiri. Mwamuna akamalankhula ndi mkazi amene amamukonda, amaonetsa kuti ali momasuka ndi thupi lake lonse. Ndikofunikanso kuti iye aphunzire za umunthu: mitu yambiri imakambidwa pazokambirana. Mnyamatayo ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe amakonda mtsikanayo, zomwe akuchita. Amafunanso kuthandizira china chake: perekani thukuta nyengo yozizira, tengani thumba lolemera.

Zowona, ndikukuchenjezani nthawi yomweyo kuti polumikizana musamaiwale kuti amuna ena ndiwolimba mtima komanso woganizira azimayi onse. Palibe cholakwika ndi izi, muyenera kungoyang'ana mwamunayo musanamve kuti sakukukonderani.

Ndikufuna ndikulakalaka owerenga onse momwe akumvera, komanso atsikanawo kulimba mtima pang'ono. Nthawi zina pokhapokha ndi iye amene alibe wokwanira kuyanjana ndi munthu amene mumafuna.

Gawani zida ndi abwenzi ndikufunsa mafunso omwe akukhudzeni! Ndidzakhala wokondwa kugawana nanu zokumana nazo!

Kutengera zochita ndi machitidwe ake?

Kuti mumvetsetse ngati munthu amakukondani ndi zomwe amachita, muyenera kumvetsera mwachidwi ku chikhalidwe chake. Ngati ndi wamanyazi, ngakhale kumwetulira pang'ono komwe kukukhala kukusonyezerani chisoni. Ngati mnyamatayo ali wolimba mtima komanso wamphamvu, ndiye kuti, chidwi chambiri chimayembekezeredwa kwa iye.

Munthuyu ayesa kukumana nanu, kukuthandizani, aliyense wopezeka m'moyo wanu.

Zochita za munthu wachikondi:

• Zikuwoneka motalikirapo kuposa masiku onse.
• Kuyesa kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri ndi inu.
• Amachita zinthu zachilendo.
• Kumbukirani zokonda zanu ndikupanga mphatso zoyenera.
• Kuyesera kuti mutenge chidwi chanu.
• Zimakusangalatsani.
• Zimathandizira kuthetsa mavuto.
• Kuzindikira kusangalala kwanu.
• Amatengera zosowa zanu.
• Amamvetsera mosamala nkhani zanu zonse.
• Amayang'ana zamtsogolo.
• Kudziyerekeza kumatula zochita zake.
• Amakuchitira nsanje.
• Amakutumizirani anzanu.
• Amachita zinthu zabwino.
• Imayesa kupanga chithunzi chabwino.
• Amakutetezani.
• Timayamikira.
• Zikusangalatsani.
• Nthawi zambiri mafoni.

Amawoneka bwanji? Zosintha maonekedwe ake

Mnyamata amene amafuna kukondedwa nthawi zonse amawoneka wangwiro komanso wokongola. Nthawi yomweyo, nthawi zonse amayesetsa kukonza kapena kusalaza chinthu kuti chioneke bwino.

Mwadzidzidzi adatamanda malaya ake, momwe adakhalira pamsonkhano wotsiriza ndipo muwona kuti mawa alowamo. Idzaphatikizidwa ndi mafuta onunkhira bwino kwambiri, kotero kuti simungathe kukana.

Ndizotheka kuti angafune kusintha tsitsi lakelo kapena kusintha kalembedwe kake. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndi mawonekedwe anu, adazindikira zolakwika mwa iye yekha ndipo akufuna kuwongolera kuti aziwoneka ngati inu.

Kodi munthu amachita bwanji akamakondana?

• Gawo loyamba. Akuyesa kukuwonetsani kuti mumamukonda. Sonyezani chisoni komanso pitirizani kulankhulana. Ulemu ndi ulemu ndizofunikira pakadali pano. Mnyamatayo akuyenera kuwonetsa kulingalira kwake konse ndi luso lake, kotero kuti mudavomereza kuti mupange naye chibwenzi, ndipo amasangalala kwambiri chifukwa chogonjetsa mtsikanayo.
• 2 siteji. Munthuyu amataya mutu kuti asamamvere ndipo sangathenso kudziletsa kuti asasokoneze malo anu kuti asasokonezane ndi mafoni. Nthawiyi ndi wokondedwa kwambiri kwa atsikana - nthawi ya maluwa ndikupita ku sinema. Guleyo amakhala wachangu komanso wosangalala.
• 3 siteji. Mukakwanitsa malo anu, gule sangasiye chilichonse monga momwe ziliri ndipo sangasiye m'manja mwanu. Adzakulitsa ubale wanu ndi china chatsopano komanso chachikondi. Gawo lirilonse lotsatira lidzalingaliridwa, adzaphunzira zambiri za zokonda zanu ndipo adzawononga nthawi yambiri pa iwo. Chifukwa chotsatira, m'malo mwa paki, mupita ku konsati ya gulu lomwe mumakonda.
• Gawo 4. Mchiyanjano chilichonse, pamabwera nthawi yomwe mipikisano ya tsiku ndi tsiku imatha ndipo anthu ayambiranso moyo wawo, amangowonjezera wokondedwa wake. Munthawi imeneyi, munthuyu amakhala wotakataka, koma osataya chidwi komanso kukhala ndi chidwi chocheza ndi inu ndikukusangalatsani m'njira zonse zomwe zingatheke.

Zokambirana ndi zokambirana ndi inu

Nayi zizindikiro zingapo zakugwa mchikondi zomwe zitha kuwonekera pokambirana ndi mnyamata:

1. Dziko lamkati. Mwamuna wachikondi samangowona nkhope yanu, komanso amayang'anira chidwi ndi malingaliro a mtsikanayo. Amachita chidwi ndi mayendedwe ake ndipo amayamikiridwa kuti amukonze. Ndikofunikira kuti atsikana amve kuti kudzipereka kwawo ndi chidwi chawo amayamikiridwa, ndipo anyamatawa amadziwa izi.
2. Chinyengo komanso ulemu. Nkhani za ubwana, za mphindi zoseketsa zochokera kutchuthi kapena mtundu wina wa zokumana nazo ndichizindikiro kuti munthu amakukhulupirira ndipo akuona thandizo mwa iwe. Mnyamata amene ali mchikondi saopa kuwoneka ngati wachikondi kapena wodekha.
3. Zakusowa. Ngati mupita kuchimbudzi ndipo mukabwerako, munakumana ndi vuto la mnyamata wina yemwe munthu wina wakumana naye musanakhaleko, ndiye kutiumwetulirani ndikudziwa kuti akuyamba kucheza nanu.
4. Sikuwona zolakwika. Mwamuna wachikondi amawona mwa inu zabwino zokha. Izi sizitanthauza kuti inu simulakwitsa, samangoona zolakwa zanu ndipo samakudzudzulani mukamacheza.
5. Sichichita manyazi. Mnyamata amene ali pachibwenzi satha nthabwala zamwano ndikupangitsa mtsikana kukhala wopanda manyazi komanso kuchita manyazi.
6. Kuzindikira. Iye adzagwira mawu aliwonse omwe ukunena, koma sadzawonetsa konse. Nthawi zonse pa nthawi yoyenera mudzakhalapo ndikumamvetsera ku chilichonse chomwe mukufuna kunena.

SMS ndikuyimba kuchokera kwa munthu wachikondi

Kuimba ndi ma SMS kuzikhala zosokoneza pang'ono, koma osapitirira kwakanthawi, ndizokwanira kudziwa momwe mukuchitira komanso nthawi yomwe mudzakumana. Ngati muli ndi vuto, munthuyo adzakumverani ngati sakhala otanganidwa ndi ntchito yofunika kuchitidwa mwachangu.

Pali anyamata amtundu wina omwe sakonda kuyankhula pafoni. Kwa iwo amayembekeza SMS kapena kuitanira kuti ayende. Awa ndi bwino kukambirana mlengalenga kapena pacafe. Ndiosavuta kwa iwo kuti atsegule poyang'ana m'maso mwa atsikanayo.

Malangizo othandiza kuchokera kwa katswiri wazamisala

1. Ngati mukukayikira kuti mumvera ena chisoni, afunseni mwachindunji (pokhapokha ngati mwamunayo alibe manyazi).
2. Mnyamata yemwe amakukondani sadzakambirana ndi atsikana ena nanu. Inu nokha ndi inu nokha. Ngakhale, pali zosankha zingapo momwe iye akungoyesera kuti amchititse nsanje.
3. Musadzinyenge nokha. Pozindikira kuti mnyamatayo akukuyang'anani, musathamangire kusangalala, izi zitha kubweretserani malingaliro anu. Amangokhala ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa chidwi chanu, ayi.
4. Nthawi zina sizingatheke kutanthauzira molondola zomwe munthu akuchita, choncho musadzipatse ulemu poona momwe amadzidzirira tsitsi lake kapena kumwetulira inu. Mwina ali wachifundo komanso wochezeka.
5. Osapempha konse anzanu kuti mudziwe za kumvera kwa anyamata. Izi zitha kuwononga zinthu.
6. Ngati pakulankhula iye akuyang'ana thupi lanu, mumakhala ndi chidwi ndi iye monga mutu wathupi. Ndikwabwino kusalankhula ndi anyamata oterowo.
7. Khalani osamala kwambiri ndi anyamata amantha. Ngati panali mwayi woti muthe kuyenda, fotokozerani nthawi yoyenda iyi.
8. Osakambirana zachikondi ndi aliyense mzere.Maubwenzi olimba nthawi zonse amapezeka pakati pa awiriwa, osasokoneza wina aliyense wapamwamba.
9. Musati mopitilira muyeso. Mutha kuwopsa kumuwopseza munthu ndi maonekedwe anu okayikitsa.
10. Lankhulani ndi makolo anu. Kumayambiriro, malingaliro anu sangapweteke wina aliyense, koma ngati mukuganiza kuti mwakukondani kwambiri, lankhulani ndi amayi anu.
11. Khalani ndi chiyembekezo. Atsikana akumwetulira amakonda anyamata kuposa olemba anzawo.

Mayankho a mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kawirikawiri

Kodi ndingamvetsetse bwanji zomwe munthu amakonda ngati atabisala?

Ingoyerekezerani momwe amakuonera inu ndi ena. Zochita zake nthawi zina sizingakhale zomveka. M'malo moganiza kuti sakuyankhula ndi inu, onani momwe amalankhulira ndi anthu. Ngati pafupi ndi inu ayamba kukhala wodekha, wotsekemera, wokonda pang'ono, ndiye kuti izi zingakhale chizindikiro.

Tchera khutu ku zizindikiro zosagwiritsa ntchito mawu: manja, nkhope, zovala Thupi lathu limapereka malingaliro athu onse, koma si aliyense amene angawaone.

Kodi mumadziwa bwanji kuti munthu amakukondani ngati simukuzidziwa?

Gwira maso ake pa iwe. Kumanani ndi kumwetulira komanso chidwi m'maso. Mnyamata yemwe ali ndi malingaliro owongoka bwino sangadutsenso inu. Adzayesa m'njira iliyonse kuti alankhule nanu kapena kuti akope chidwi chanu.

Mudziwa bwanji kuti munthu amandikonda osati bwenzi?

Choyamba, yang'anirani kusintha kwake. Mwa munthu wachikondi, ngakhale kamvekedwe ndi kalankhulidwe kake zimasintha. Adzakuyang'anirani kwambiri. Sichosavuta kuleka kucheza ndi inu.

Chizindikiro chachikulu pamenepa ndi manyazi. Mnyamata yemwe m'mbuyomu amatha kukukumbatira mosavuta, mwadzidzidzi adayamba kuchita manyazi ndikuyang'ana kumbali? Tsopano inu ndi a iye, kuposa mnzake, ndipo adayamba kumvetsetsa za machitidwe ake.

Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani mukazindikira zomwe munthu amakonda?

Kuwala kokwanira kukubwezera, pambuyo pake ingoyang'anani zochita ndi machitidwe ake. Guys samayanjana ndi maubwenzi omwe amapezeka mosavuta, chifukwa chake setsani naye kwakanthawi, pangani malingaliro kuti sangathe kumupangitsa kukhala wokondweretsa.

Nokha, muyenera kumvetsetsa ngati ndinu okonzeka kuyanjana ndi udindo. Ngati ndi choncho, ingodzikondani nokha, dziyang'anireni nokha, kumwetulira ndikudikirira nthawi yabwino yomwe mnyamatayo adzadziwonetse.

Malangizo ena othandiza amomwe mungalankhulire ndi mnyamata wachinyamata pagulu. maukonde

1) Lankhulani naye kwambiri.
Musalole kuti iye aganize za inu nokha. Yesani nthawi zina kukambirana mitu yayikulu, koma musayanjane nawo.

2) Khalani osayembekezeka.
Ngati chibwenzi chanu chatha kwa milungu ingapo, musachite mantha kuchoka pa intaneti mwadzidzidzi kamodzi kapena mkati mwakambirana, mukumangosiyidwa. Mutha kubwera ndi kulongosola kopanda tanthauzo kwa izi mu mawonekedwe a intaneti osweka kapena kugogoda pakhomo.

4) Chitani zomwe amachita.
Dziwani mtundu wa nyimbo zomwe akumvera, ndipo ndi ziti zomwe sizabwino.

5) Khalani ochezeka.
Yesetsani kukhala omasuka ndi akumwetulira pazithunzi zonse komanso makalata anu. Osalemba mawu osakwanira komanso zinthu. Osanena zinthu zomwe mwina sangakonde kapena kumunyoza. Khalani abwino. Muloleni amve bwino pamakalata inu.

6) Khalani ndi chidwi ndi moyo wake.
Mufunseni mafunso okhudza abwenzi, zomwe amakonda kuchita ndi zomwe akuchita. Nenani kuti nthawi zonse mutha kumuthandiza kapena kumulangizani. Komabe, musakhale osokoneza. Alole kuti akhale omasuka polankhulana nanu.

7) Osachitapo kanthu mosalekeza.
Musamufunse kuti mudzacheza nthawi yanji kapena adzakulemberani. Lankhulani kwa iye mophweka komanso mosavuta. Ngati mumamukonda, adzakulemberaninso.

Kodi mukudziwa bwanji kuti bambo amene ali mu cholembera amakukondani?

Zinthu zosonyeza kuti amakumverani chisoni:

• Mnyamata aliyense angakupatseni zoyamikira.
• Ngati m'mbuyomu mnyamatayo adalemba kulemba, ndipo patapita nthawi adayamba kutsatira mawu ndi zolakwika, ndiye kuti ndichizindikiro chabwino.
• Palibe mawu osagwirizana!
• Pali chidwi chochititsa chidwi m'moyo wanu.
• Poyerekeza abwenzi ake ndi inu, amakukweza.
• Manambala nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana, pomwe amakumbukira kusowa kwanu m'malo ena.
• Amalemba kuti adakusowani.
• Madandaulo okhudzana ndi atsikana ena (pokhapokha pamaphunziro amakono).
• Kusonyeza chidwi ndi zomwe mumakonda kuchita.
• Kulemberana makalata kumayamba.
• Ikugwira ntchito patsamba lanu.
• Kuyeserera, kuyesa kuwoneka ngati koseketsa.

Makalata ochokera kwa munthu yemwe amamvera chisoni mtsikana:

• osadziwa kutha, popanda nkhanza ndi upandu,
• muli ndi mafunso omwe angamuthandize kuti adziwani bwino: za banja lanu, ntchito / kuphunzira, zosangalatsa, nyimbo zomwe mumakonda, mabuku, mafilimu, ndi zina zambiri,
• zoseketsa, zoseweretsa nthabwala (zabwino, ndi mwayi uliwonse),
• Kuyenderana ndi kufananiza (m'malo mwanu), ndi atsikana ena omwe amawadziwa,
• Ndi nkhani za mnyamata wina za iye, zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti akufuna kuti mumudziwe bwino,
• ili ndi mafunso onena zoyenera kuchita mukapatsidwa nthawi - ali ndi chidwi ndi malingaliro anu m'makalata,
• ndi malingaliro osatsutsika - osati oyipa ndi oyipa, koma ndi kukhudza kopanda tanthauzo.
• mulinso mawu ngati awa: "Ndidzayang'ana yankho lanu," "ndakusowa," "Ndikufuna kukukumbatirani bwanji," "sindikuyembekezera msonkhano wathu," ndi zina zotero,

Ndipo samalani ndi momwe mwamunayo amalizira kulemba makalata: "Bye", "Chao" kapena "Chabwino, ndiyenera kupita" zikusonyeza kuti simuli bwino kwa iye.

Ndi nkhani yosiyana ndi izi: "Pepani kuti tisokoneze makalata athu, koma ndiyenera kuthamangira kuntchito. Tikuonana posachedwa ”kapena" Zabwino zonse, ndakusowa mpaka ndikalandira kalata yanu yotsatira. "

Mutha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi nkhani yamomwe mungaganizire munthu.

Pomaliza

Masiku ano simudzadabwitsa aliyense mwa kuzolowera makalata.

M'malo mwa zilembo zamakalata, zilembo zamagetsi tsopano zalembedwa, ndipo chifukwa cha intaneti, kuthekera kwawo kwatukuka kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale mauthenga afupikitsika kwambiri, kulemberana makalata kumagwirizanitsa mitima ngati kale.

Kukopana kumawonekera m'moyo weniweni, koma pa intaneti ndizovuta kwambiri kuzindikira zolinga za munthu. Kuti mumvetsetse ngati munthu yemwe mumakonda kucheza naye pa intaneti, muyenera kuganizira njira yake yolumikizirana ndi inu.

Munkhaniyi, mupeza zikuluzikulu zomwe zingakuuzeni ngati cholembera chimakukondani. Ngati wachinyamata ali m'chikondi, amayesa kumuthandiza othandizira, amayembekeza mawonekedwe ake pa intaneti, amalemba nthawi zonse, komanso amalumikizana tsiku lililonse. Ngati munthu afunsa upangiri, ali ndi chidwi ndi lingaliro lanu, ndipo akakufunsani mafunso angapo, titha kunena motsimikiza kuti simuli omvera.

Zinthu zomwe zidakonzedwa ndi Dilara makamaka agydar.ru

Nambala ya 1. Munthuyu amakonda zokambirana.

Yang'anirani momwe amagwirira ntchito, manja ndi gawo lalikulu lazokambirana. Mnyamatayo wachikondi amakhala phokoso lalitali, lachete, lokopa ngati maginito. Mnyamata akhoza kufotokozera momveka bwino komanso kaye pang'ono, akufuna kuti azimveka pang'ono.

Onani ngati mnyamatayo akuyang'anitsitsa. Ngati akakhala kuti akutsogoza maso ake kumbali, izi zimangosonyeza kusakhudzidwa.

Onani mkhalidwe wa wachinyamata wokhala ndi alendo. Kodi amasokonezedwa ndipo zolankhula zimasokonekera? Munthuyu amakhala wotopetsa komanso wosakondweretsa. Samatengera chidwi kwa aliyense, kuyang'ana pa interlocutor? Ndizotheka kuti mnyamatayo amamvera chisoni.

Nambala yachiwiri 2. Amakukondweretsani.

Mnyamata akamaseka, amaseka akunyoza, koma nthabwala zopanda vuto, alibe chidwi. Mofananamo, mnyamatayo amayesetsa kuti ayankhe, kukulitsa chibwenzi chodzaza. Chopanda, khalani ndi zokambirana!

Chizindikiro chowonekeratu chowonetsera zakukonda ndi chidwi m'moyo wanu. Kodi mnyamatayo akuyamba kufunsa za abale? Mudziwa momwe tsiku lidayendera? Munamunyengerera.Njira ina yotsogolera mwambowo ikusonyeza kuti mnyamatayo adzayamba kugawana zatsatanetsatane, kukambirana pazofunikira ndikupempha upangiri. Kunena zowona kumawonetsa chidwi.

Mnyamatayo amayamikiridwa, amayamika luso lanu, ndipo pamsonkhano amati mukuwoneka wokongola? Amamumvera chisoni.

Pofuna kuwulula zolinga zenizeni za mnyamatayo, tchulani zomwe amachita pakati pa abwenzi ake apamtima. Mukuwona kuti pamaso panu mnyamatayo akuyesera kuti asalankhule zolaula komanso osanena nkhani zoyipa? Maganizo a mayi amene alipo alipo ndiofunika kwa iye. Akuyesetsa kuti azilankhula osati kukhala wankhanza kwambiri, ngakhale ngati anzake sakuvomereza. Mofananamo, mnyamatayo amayesetsa kuwonetsa kuti amalemekeza wobwezera.

Nthawi zambiri chidwi chachimuna chimadziwonetsera chidwi ndi adani. Amachokera kutali ndipo amayesa kudziwa ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu? Eya, amakukondani, apo ayi, chidwi chotere sichikadakhala chokha. Ngati mnyamatayo akufuna kubweretsa mtsikanayo kwa mnyamata wina, zikutanthauza kuti akuwona mwa iye yekha bwenzi.

Nambala yachitatu 3. Mnyamata wokayikira atsikana ena

Mverani mawu omwe amawerenga atsikana ena. Mwina mnyamatayo akukufunsani malangizo ophimbika ndipo zimveketsa kuti amakonda Sveta wochokera kubwalo loyandikana nalo. Pankhaniyi, zonse ndizomveka.

Ngati mnyamatayo akukayikira ena onse oimilira, mtima wake umakhala wolimba ndi iwe. Mnyamata akanena kuti sangapeze mnzake, ndiye kuti amafuna kuti anene zakukhosi kwanu.

Pali mtundu wa anyamata onyenga. Amawona mu atsikana chiphaso choti agonjetsedwe. Yesetsani kudziteteza kwa anthu otere. Khalidwe lawo limadziwika ndi njira yolankhulirana yolusa, njira, kunyada kwambiri.

Achinyamata ambiri amadzionetsera kuti ndi akazi, akufuna kulowetsa mtsikanayo ndikuwapangitsa kuti achite nsanje. Kodi mnyamatayo nthawi zambiri amalankhula za kuwonekera kwa chikondi patsogolo? Onani ngati zili choncho. Kupanda kutero, mudzazindikira kuti amachita izi kuti akope chidwi chanu.

Nambala yachinayi. Amayesetsa kukuchititsani chidwi ndi kuwerenga.

Zaka za kupita patsogolo kwa ukadaulo zimathandizira pa ubale wapakati pa anthu. Sikuti anyamata onse amapita kumaso pamaso m'pamaso, ambiri amakonda kulankhulana kudzera pa Intaneti kapena pafoni.

M'makalatidwewa mudazindikira malembedwe olondola komanso kutalika kwa mawu akuti "Prints a message ..."? Mnyamatayo amasankha mawu kuti amusangalatse wolowererayo ndi matchulidwe. Amakhala nthawi akufuna kuwonetsa malingaliro ake ndikumenya mwachangu.

Unikani momwe mumayimbira komanso nthawi yayitali bwanji kukambirana. Kodi bambowo amakhala ndi nkhawa akamakambirana? Ngati ndi choncho, amamumvera chisoni ndipo amawopa kuti azioneka achipongwe. Kulankhula pafoni ndi chinthu chapamtima, chifukwa simungathe kuonana, muyenera kungogwiritsa mawu anu. Panthawi yomwe wachinyamata amafunsira, ndipo zokambirana sizipitilira mphindi ziwiri, alibe chidwi.

Zizindikiro zokhazikika pamakalatawo ndi ndemanga zawo pakhoma zimatsimikizira chisoni. Tsatirani zithunzi zomwe mnyamatayo amakonda pa malo ochezera. Mwina amakonda bwenzi la Nastya, yemwe amapezeka pafupifupi zithunzi zonse.

Kodi gululi limagwiritsa ntchito maimelo mu mauthenga kapena limalemba chilankhulo chouma? Pofunsa pazinthu zofunika, mukufuna kuti mulimbikitse zokambirana? Kutaya makanema kapena zithunzi zoseketsa? Amayesetsa kulankhula bwino ndi anthu. Mnyamatayo akufuna kupititsa patsogolo ubale.

Nambala yachisanu. Guy akufuna kuwoneka pafupi

Phunzirani kuzindikira kalankhulidwe ka thupi. Mukuwona kuti nthawi zambiri amakukhudza "mwangozi"? Gwira dzanja lalitali kuposa momwe liyenera kukhalira? Zimabwera pafupi mukakhala pagululo? Izi zimawonetsa kuti amamumvera chisoni.

Kuphatikiza pazomverera zamatope, kodi mudazindikira kuti mnyamatayo samakuchotsani maso? Amasilira maonekedwe. Gwiritsani ntchito chidwi chake, kwinaku akumwetulira, ndikuzindikira kuti wagwidwa.

Samalani ndi chinenero chamanja, zikuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse ngati mumakonda kapena ayi.Mukamalankhula, wolowererayo sakugwera pachifuwa pake ndikuwonetsa manja awo mwaulere? Amatha kukambirana. Chizindikiro chachifundo ndi kutsamira kwa thupi kutsogolo, momwemonso mnyamatayo akufuna kuwoneka pafupi. Nthawi zambiri amatha kuwerama kuti akunong'onezeni kena kake khutu ndikukhudza dzanja lanu.

Nambala yachisanu ndi chimodzi. Amapereka chithandizo chokwanira.

Mwamuna wachikondi mwa njira iliyonse amayesetsa kuthandiza mtsikana amene amamukonda. Onani zomwe zotsatsira zikuchitika? Mwina guleyo amatenga inu pagalimoto kupita komwe mukupita kapena amakuthandizani poyenda.

Samalani kuti musakhale pachibwenzi, chomwe chimawonetsedwa pogula zamalonda anu omwe mumakonda kapena kulamula pizza kunyumba. Kukhulupirika kuli mu tsatanetsatane. Kodi guleyo amakusamala kangati? Kodi amagula mankhwala mukadwala? Ndi yankho lobvomereza, mutha kuganiza kuti chisoni ndi chogwirizana.

Mnyamata wachidwi ali ndi nkhawa chifukwa cha chidwi chake. Kumbukirani kuti amayimba kangati? Funsani mafunso za komwe muli? Izi zimawonetsa zolinga zazikulu. Palibe munthu yemwe angataye nthawi pa mtsikana yemwe samamukonda. Amuna amakhala mozungulira pamene akufuna kupanga kulumikizana komwe kulipo.

Nambala ya 7. Munthuyu sakufuna kucheza ndi atsikana ena

Onani momwe amakhalira ndi oyimilira achikazi. Kodi amakonda kuitana kangati ndi kumayanja? Ngati mumamukondadi, sangamvere mwachinyengo kapena nthabwala ndi aliyense.

Ngati mungazindikire kuti pakampani yonse akufuna kukhala nanu, osati ndi Tanya, Anya, Sveta, ndiye inu nokha omwe akufunika. Ngati munthu agundana ndi azimayi onse omwe ali pamtunda wamakilomita khumi, ndiye kuti wangokhala mkazi wolemekeza.

Pankhani yolankhula za atsikana ena, kodi mnyamatayo safuna kuyankha mafunso? Izi zikuwonetsa kuti wakudziwitsani kale kuti ndi mnzake. Zokambirana pazokambirana zakale kapena abwenzi omwe anali asungwana zimasokoneza, mwamunayo akuwona kuti ndi mtundu wachipongwe wake.

Nambala yaulere 8. Amakudziwitsani okondedwa

Chizindikiro chotsimikizika cha kuti munthu akumvera chisoni ndikukudziwa abale ake, azilongo ake, makolo ake komanso abwenzi apamtima. Amafuna kuwonetsa aliyense kuti wakusankhani kuti mukhale mnzake. Achinyamata ambiri amasankha izi atatha kulumikizana miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, nthawi zina zochulukirapo.

Unikani zomwe mumachita limodzi, ndi malo omwe mumachezera. Ngati munthu akaitana ambiri osazolowera kumisonkhano yolumikizana, ayenera kuti amawona mwa iwe yekha bwenzi.

Dziwani kuchuluka kwa kulumikizana. Kodi mumachita bizinesi wamba ngati abwenzi, kapena mumadumphira zochitika zina za banja m'njira yogulitsira limodzi kapena kupita ku sinema? Ngati mumakonda kuphika chakudya chamadzulo kapena kumapita kukagulira zinthu, mwina, mnyamatayo amakuwona ngati mnzake wamtsogolo.

Chizindikiro china choti munthu amakonda msungwana ndi ichi: amakuyitanani kuti mudzayende / kupita ku sinema / pikiniki, komwe kungakhale anthu ochepa okha. Mwanjira imeneyi, mnyamatayo pafupifupi akuwonetsa kuti akufuna kuti adzafike pamlingo wina watsopano.

Chikwangwani nambala 9. Munthuyu amasankha malo achikondi pamisonkhano

Njira yothandiza kwambiri yodziwira zolinga zenizeni zaunyamata ndikuwunika magulu omwe mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi. Kodi mwazindikira maukwati ambiri akumpsompsonana? Mwachilengedwe, munthuyo amakhala wopanda chidwi, choncho adasankha malo oyenera. Ngati akhala pansi kumalo odyera aku yunivesite kapena akuitanani ku McDonald's, kulumikizana kwanu ndikabwino.

Mukuyitanidwa ku sinema? Zabwino, yikani mtundu wa kanema. Ngati ndi nthabwala zachikondi kapena melodrama ya misozi, amakukondani. Nthawi zomwe wachinyamata akukupemphani kuti muwonerere wokondwerera, wokondweretsa, wowopsa kapena wakumadzulo, ayenera kuti alibe aliyense woti azikayenda naye ku kanema.

Osagona usiku, ndikulota munthu? Yambirani kugwira ntchito yonse! Dziwani mtundu wa kulumikizana, tcherani khutu ku zoyamikira, kamvekedwe ka zokambirana ndikutsatira chilankhulo cha thupi. Dziwani zenizeni ngati mnyamatayo akusamalirani kapena ayi, ngakhale atakuthandizani.Tsatirani kulumikizana kwake ndi atsikana ena, funsani mafunso amtundu waumwini ndikuyembekezera yankho mwatsatanetsatane.

Momwe mungadziwire ngati bambo kapena bambo amakukondani

Momwe amalankhulira nanu. Momwe wachinyamata amalumikizirana ndi inu akhoza kunena zambiri zakusintha kwake. Ndiye kuti, amakuchitirani ngati bwenzi lake, kapena akadali ngati mnzake? Yesani kufotokoza mfundo zotsatirazi:

• Kodi samakuyang'anirani mukamacheza, kapena amabisala, kutsitsa maso ake? Mwinanso choona ndichakuti amangokuchitirani manyazi, chifukwa amakukondani!
• Kodi amatha kusokonekera mosavuta pakulankhula komanso kuchokera kwa inu? Mwina mukamacheza nanu, winawake anakuimbirani kapena kumuyimbira. Ngati zitachitika kuti mnyamatayo nthawi yomweyo amaiwala za zomwe mwakambirana, mwina sangakhale ndi chidwi ndi zomwe mukukambirana, kapena akuwona kuti sizofunika kwa iye.
• Kodi amakuyamikirani? Ngati ndi choncho, ndipo kuwonjezera apo izi zimachitika pafupipafupi, mnyamatayo amakusangalatsani. Kapena, mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito dzina lanu chifukwa amalikonda.
• Samalani kwambiri ndi zomwe akukuwuzani. Kodi amakusekerani? Osathamangira kukhumudwitsidwa. Zachidziwikire, nthabwala ndizosiyana, koma ngati mukulankhula kwake nthawi zina amatha nthabwala zonyoza inu, izi zitha kutanthauza kuti akungokopeka kapena kuyesa kusangalatsa.

• Kodi akugawana nanu zinazake payekha - iyi ndi njira yotsatira yomwe mungamvetsetsere ngati munthu amakukondani? Sizachilendo kuti bambo azigawana zakukhosi kwake, malingaliro aliwonse kapena zovuta zilizonse ndi wina aliyense. Nthawi zina amakhala ndi malingaliro kwakanthawi. Chifukwa chake, ngati wachinyamata amagawana nanu zomwezi, malingaliro anu amtsogolo, mavuto am'banja - izi zikutanthauza kuti mumamukhulupirira ndipo, makamaka, akufuna ubale wamphamvu ndi inu.
• Kodi ali ndi chidwi ndi m'mbuyomu? Mukamayankhulana, posakhalitsa, kukambirana kumatha kudutsa zakale. Zokhudza ubale wakale. Kodi zomwe mnyamatayo amachirikiza pamutuwu zikukambanso chiyani, nayenso amafunsa mafunso pamenepa? Kuti akuyesera kuti muwone ngati mukufuna anyamata ena, ngakhale inu muli aufulu, ngati mukufuna chibwenzi chatsopano.

Komanso, pomvetsetsa momwe anyamata amakonda mtsikana, chizindikiro chofunikira ndi malingaliro ake kwa atsikana ena.

• Samalani momwe amagwirizira ndi malingaliro anu. Kodi ndi yapadera komanso yofunika kwa iye? Kapena mukungokhala bwenzi lina la iye, yemwe iye, ngati atsikana onse, amakhalanso chimodzimodzi?
• Mverani zomwe iye mwini akunena pamayanjano apitawa. Ngati nkhani zake ndi zazifupi, zongonena kapena nthabwala, mwina iye sakulankhula mokwanira, ndipo simunasiyane ndi izi. Koma samalani, nthawi zina kuseri kwa malingaliro otere kumabisa cholinga chofuna kukuchititsani nsanje.
• Mumalankhulana bwanji osakhala pafupi? Kodi amakulemberani, kapena amangokumbukira kuchokera kumisonkhano kupita kumisonkhano? Zimakhala ndi nkhawa mukamalankhula pafoni, kapena sms yochenjera imalemba? Inde, ichi sichizindikiro chofunikira kwambiri, ndipo mwina sakonda kulumikizidwa pa intaneti. Chifukwa chake, musathamangire kukwiya ngati simukulumikizana ndi malo ochezera a pa intaneti pafupipafupi momwe mungafunire. Mwina amasangalala kukuwonani?

Chizindikiro chotsatira chodziwira ngati munthu amakukondani ndikupenda nthawi ndi malo omwe mumakumana.

• Kodi chingadziwe chiyani nthawi ndi malo? Kumbukirani, kodi mumawonana nthawi zonse m'makampani amaphokoso, kumapwando, kuchezera anzanu, kapena amakupemphani kuti muziyenda nokha? Ndipo ngati mungafune kudya zodyera, kodi ndi phokoso, malo omwe anthu ambiri satha kumva zomwe munthu amene mukulankhula naye kapena amakonda malo abata, ngakhale okondana? Kapena mwina anakuwonetsani chinthu chapadera - "malo ake", komwe amakonda kudzaganiza za chinthu chofunikira.
• Kodi mumakumana pokhapokha ngati kuli koyenera kwa iye, mwachitsanzo, atagwira ntchito, malonda ena, kapena amaganizira mavuto anu? Ngati zochitika zonse zomwe zatchulidwazi kapena zochitika zina zilankhulidwe m'malo mokomera kuti mnyamatayo amakukondani, musathamangire kuchitapo kanthu. Onetsetsani kuti zonsezi sizimangowonekera kwa inu chifukwa cha chikondi chanu. Ngati mukutsimikiza kuti amakukondani, kapena mungoganiza kuti palibe cholakwika ndi izi, mutha kumuuza zakukhosi kwanu.
• Kupatula apo, modabwitsa, koma nthawi zambiri mumagwirizana, onse amawopa kuvomereza kokha chifukwa choopa kuti winayo samva zotere. Koma osachita mopambanitsa ndi zizindikiro zokusonyezani, kuzindikira kapena kufotokoza momwe akumvera, kuti musawopere gululi, ngakhale atakukondani. Simungafune kumawoneka ngati msaki wamisala. Chifukwa chake zinthu zonse ziziyenda mwanjira yake, popanda chifukwa kunena kuti "chilichonse chili ndi nthawi yake." Khalani odzipereka, khalani nokha, ndipo malingaliro, ngati alidi, awonekera!

Zizindikiro kuti bambo amakukondani

Chilankhulo cha thupi chimatha kuuzanso zambiri zokhudzana ndi ubale wa abambo kapena wachinyamata kwa iwe. Yesani kutengera momwe amakhalira ndi inu:

• Kodi akuti akukugwirani “mwangozi”? Bondo lake limakhudza lanu mukamawonera kanema ndipo iye “sazindikira”. Kapena manja ake amangogwira dzanja lanu mukamapereka chinthu. Izi zitha kuwonetsa kuti mnyamatayo akufuna kukhala pafupi ndi inu.
• Kodi nthawi zambiri amakuyang'anani? Kodi mwazindikira kuti mu kampani yopanga phokoso yokhala ndi anthu ambiri, komabe, nthawi zambiri amakuyang'anani. Makamaka ngati mukuganiza kuti simukuwona mawonekedwe ake?
• Ndipo amakuchitirani chiyani? Tiyerekeze kuti amadziwa zomwe mumakonda, zomwe mumakonda. Kodi amayesa kugwiritsa ntchito kuti akusangalatseni? (Ndi mtundu wanji wa tchipisi womwe ungathandize anyamata ngati atsikana, mutha kudziwa izi powerenga nkhaniyi patsamba).
• Kodi amakusamalirani? Usiku wozizira, timathamangira kukuponyerani jekete lanu kapena kudutsa mutaphunzira / ntchito kuti musayende maphokoso? Wokonzeka nthawi zonse kuthandiza ngati chinthu chasokonekera, mwachidziwikire, mapepala okhala ndi maswiti omwe mumakonda? Ngati ndi choncho, lembani mfundo zingapo mokomera inu.

• Kodi ali pafupi ndi nthawi yovuta? Monga tanenera, amuna ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi akazi. Ndipo misozi yachikazi imawakwiyitsa iwo konse. Chifukwa chake, ngati munthu akadali pafupi ndi inu, mukakhala achisoni, amapukuta misozi yanu, ndikuyesani kukutonthozani, mwina simuli opanda chidwi ndi iye. Kupanda kutero, sakanawononga nthawi yake.
• Momwe mungayang'anire ngati munthu amakukondani, samalani ndi gawo limodzi - kulumikizana. Adzatsata mayendedwe anu mosamala kapena mosazindikira. Mwachitsanzo, mukamamwa kapu, amamwe. Ngati mungakhale wolumikizika miyendo, nayenso amatero. Kapena mumakhala ndi zovala zofananira, mumakhala mumalo omwewo - zonsezi ndi zizindikiro zabwino. Nonse awiri mukadabwitsidwa ndi zinthu zomwezo, ndiye kuphatikiza kwakukulu. Ngati akuseka nthabwala zanu, izi ndi mfundo zowonjezera.
• Mwamuna nthawi zambiri amakumwetulira, akuyang'ana mwachindunji kwa inu. Nthawi yomweyo ali ndi mtundu wamtundu wapadera kapena kumwetulira komwe kumagwira inu pokhapokha kwa akazi ena onse. Ma nsidze ake amawuka, osati modabwitsa, koma wokwanira kuti azindikire kuti ndiwe mtsikana wapadera. Amakuseka mukaseka, chifukwa akufuna kukhala pamavulidwe ofanana.
• Kodi akufuna kukudziwani bwino? Mwachitsanzo, kampaniyo imayesetsa kukhala pafupi nanu kwambiri, nthawi zambiri imayang'ana zifukwa zokumana pakati pa sabata, imazindikira makanema omwe mumakonda, kapena zomwe mumakonda kuchita, komwe bala lanu limachokera komanso zomwe ziweto zanu zimatchedwa, ndiye kuti mukudziwa - ali ndi cholinga . Mwambiri, cholinga ichi ndi kukhala pafupi, kukhala osangalatsa kwa inu.
• Amakukondani kwambiri ngati akuti akungosewera mwangozi kapena kugwira tsitsi lanu. Amuna amakonda tsitsi lokongola lachikazi kuposa momwe mukuganizira.Manja ake atangokhala pamutu panu, akumazungulira tsitsi, ndizowonekeratu kuti zizindikirazi zimakukondani.

• Ndipo amakuyimira bwanji pagulu? Ngakhale zimveke kuti ndizoseketsa, koma ngati munthu amakukondani, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zovuta momwe angayambitsire anzanu. Ndipo zonse chifukwa kukulengetsani monga bwenzi sizingakhale zowona kwa iye, ngati akumva koposa ubwenzi. Koma sangayimbe ngakhale mtsikana, chifukwa sadziwa kuti mumamumvera. Chifukwa chake, musathamangire kukhumudwitsidwa ngati mnyamatayo akuzengereza, kuyesa kukudziwitsani kwa abwenzi ake komanso omwe mumawadziwa.
• Kodi mukudziwa banja lake, abwenzi? Vomerezani, sikofunikira kwambiri kudziwa mnzake wamba ndi mayi ake kapena mnzake, ngati mtsikana amene amakonda. Ngati mwamunayo akukupemphani kuti mudzadyere limodzi kapena kupatsa mphatso kwa bwenzi lanu lapamtima, ndiye kuti ali ndi malingaliro amtsogolo mtsogolo.

Momwe mungadziwire kuti mwana amakukondani

Onani mitundu ingapo ya chilankhulo chake chomwe chimamuthandiza kumvetsetsa kuti amakukondani. Mwa njira, chisonyezo chachikulu cha chikhumbo ndi chisoni ndi momwe kulumikizana kwakanthawi kumakhalira.

• Mnyamatayo akufuna kukuchotsani kumbuyo. Izi sizachilendo, koma mwina zikutanthauza kuti alibe kulimba mtima pokukumbatira, monga momwe zimakhalira mwa akulu. Koma ali wokondwa kwambiri kukuonani ndipo sangadikire kuti atembenuke kuti ayang'ane nkhope yake.
• Amakugundirani.
• Kumakumbatira poyenda.
• Kufunafuna zifukwa zokuthandizani kusewera dzanja lanu kapena kugwira dzanja lanu.
• Imagundika ndi zinthu: desiki ya pasukulu, tebulo, bolodi chifukwa chamanjenje.
• Atha kuyiwala zambiri zokhudza inu: dzina kapena adilesi, chifukwa ndi wamanjenje.
• Amasewera zala ndi mphete zilizonse chifukwa chamanjenje.
• Amakonzanso zinthu zonse pathebulo osapeza malo ake. Afunika kuchita nawo zinthu zina, chifukwa amaopa kukhudzika mtima.
• Imayesetsa kuti iwoneke okalamba komanso yolemetsa pamaso panu.

• Chifukwa cha kuchuluka mwadzidzidzi kwamphamvu pakuwona msungwana womumvera chisoni, amatha kukhala ngati kamwana: kupanga phokoso, kusewera mwamasewera, kukwera ndi anzawo ophunzira nawo. Zonsezi ndi zizindikilo kuti munthu amene amakonda kusukulu amakukonda.
• Mwadzidzidzi adafunikira kuwongola sokosi yake imodzi ndikumukoka - iyi ndi nzeru yakale.
• Nthawi zonse imatsitsira tsitsi lanu pamaso panu. Popeza amatsogozedwa ndi chidwi chofuna kuwoneka bwino, kuti azidziwika bwino kuchokera kumbali ya anyamata ena.
• Chimayang'ana kwa inu kwanthawi yayitali.
• Imanunkhira kwambiri za cologne, makamaka ngati izi sizinachitike kale.
• Mawonekedwe ake adakhala bwino kuti aziwoneka wolimba mtima, wamphamvu, wolimba mtima.
• Amanyambita milomo yake, nthawi zambiri mochenjera.
• Akuyesani kukutetezani, chifukwa amakhala ndi chidaliro ndipo amafuna kuti mumutenge ngati oteteza.
• Zosadabwitsa kuti, zimatha kunjenjemera pamaso panu kapena kumayimba muluzi, chifukwa ndi yosangalala komanso yaulere.

Pomaliza

Munakumana ndi munthu yemwe mudayamba kucheza naye, kulumikizana, koma momwe akumvera sizikudziwika, ndipo simukudziwa ngati ali ndi tsogolo lina kupatula kucheza. Uwu ndi mkhalidwe wabwino kwambiri pamene mumalankhulana pafupipafupi pomwe mukumangika mu maubale omwe amawaganizira kuti siubwenzi, koma ochepera chikondi. Chifukwa chake, lingalirolo limayang'ana m'mitu ya akazi, momwe mungadziwire kuti munthu amakukondani? Chifukwa amuna ambiri, monga tanena kale, sakonzeka kuuza msungwanayo mwachindunji. Poganizira izi, ndikofunikira kuyang'ana chilankhulo cha munthu yemwe nthawi zambiri amalankhula zambiri kuposa mawu okuulula.

Ndikupangira kuti muwonerere kanema wamomwe mungadziwire ngati munthu amakukondani kapena ayi mwa chilankhulidwe chamanja cha amuna.

Zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe mungadziwe ngati mukufuna mwamuna

Malinga ndi momwe amachitira ndi inu komanso mogwirizana ndi inu

Guys amayesa kusamalira atsikana omwe amawakonda. Ngati angakuthandizeni ngakhale mutakhala kuti simunamufunse, izi zikuwonetseratu kuti mukumusangalatsa, ndipo akufuna kukuwonetsani chidwi.Mwachitsanzo, mudanena kuti simudziwa kubwezeretsa ntchito ina pafoni - poyankha, apereka kuti awone vuto. Kapenanso, amakulolani kuvala jekete lanu mukadzaona kuti mwangovala mosavuta komanso momasuka. Pazonse, kuda nkhawa kulikonse ndi chizindikiro chabwino.

Komanso, njira yosinthira sikusiyidwa - akufuna kuti mutenge nawo mbali pazinthu zake. Mwachitsanzo, angamufunse posankha chinthu, kuwonetsa kuti akukhulupirira lingaliro lanu. Amakambilananso nawe pazinthu zingapo - kukonza chakudya, chomwe chimakhala ndi kanema kapena mafilimu oti muwone, ndi zina zotero.

Mwa njira yomwe munthu amalumikizirana ndi inu

Amayeserera nthawi zonse kukambirana, ngakhale mutalankhulana panokha kapena ayi. Ngati pali zovuta zovuta, amayesa kuwadzaza ndi nkhani zina kapena kukufunsani mafunso. Khalidwe limodzimodzilo m'magulu ochezera (pakumacheza, anzanu akusukuri, ndi ena) - ngakhale ngati uthenga wotsiriza mu zokambiranazo udachokera kwa iye, ndiye, osadikira mayankho anu, adzakulemberaninso.

Komanso chizindikiritso chabwino kuti mumatha kukuthandizani ndi china chake - khofi, apulo, maswiti ndi zina zotero. Mukaona kuti mnyamata akufuna kuseweretsa nthabwala kuti akusangalatseni, ndiye kuti nawonso ndi "zilankhulidwe" zamitundu yambiri - akuyembekeza kuti angakusangalatseni.

Ndi manja ake, kunyezimira, kumwetulira

Mukawoneka m'makampani, momwe amachitira zinthu zimasintha pang'ono - amatha kukhala wolimba kapena, m'malo mwake, amakhalanso moseketsa. Kulankhulana nanu, amayesetsa kukhala pafupi kwambiri momwe angathere - amatsamira kwa inu ndipo kwa masekondi angapo, kapena kuposerapo, amakungoyang'anirani mwachidwi, akumamvetsera mwatcheru kuzonse zomwe mukunena. Ndizotheka kuti akuyesera kukukhudzani nthawi iliyonse yabwino - kuwoloka msewu, kuwonetsa kena kake pafoni yake, kukonza mpango wanu, ndi zina zambiri. Kumwetulira kumatha kuoneka pankhope panu kopanda kukudziwani akakuonani - mukamacheza, m'masekondi oyambilira amsonkhano, akadziyang'ana nokha.

Maonekedwe a munthu, kusintha mawonekedwe

Amakhala ndi nkhawa ndi mawonekedwe ake, ndipo ngakhale atafunsa mwachindunji ngati zonse zili bwino ndi iye, zikuwonekerabe kuti izi ndizofunikira kwa iye - amayesa kukonza zovala, amakhudza tsitsi lake, ndipo, nthawi zina, amayang'ana mawonekedwe ake pagalasi. mawonekedwe.

Amayesa kukhala mowongoka, kuwongola mapewa ake, kutembenukira kwa inu - pomwe mawonekedwe ake angawoneke pang'ono. Mwa njira, ana opukusidwa mukamayang'ana mungathenso kunena zambiri!

Momwe mungadziwire ngati munthu amakukondani kudzera pa SMS kapena foni

Achinyamata ena sangaganize zosonyeza kuti amamvera chisoni anzawo polankhula, amakonda kucheza ndi telefoni kapena SMS.

Pankhaniyi, pali zizindikiro zingapo zomwe zikuwonetsa bwino kuti amamvera chisoni:

• Nthawi zambiri, omwe amakhala akuyimbira foni amachokera kwa iye. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mulibe chikhalidwe chotere, kuyankhulana wina ndi mnzake monga choncho, apeza chifukwa choimbira foni. Ikhoza kukhala mtundu wina womveketsa bwino pankhani zophunzirira kapena ntchito. Anganenanso kuti akuyang'ana kucheza ndi mnzake wapamtima.
• Samalani kutalika kwa zolankhula zanu. Mnyamatayo wakuyimbirani chifukwa china, koma pambuyo pofotokoza nkhaniyi sikuthamangira kukangamira? Ichi ndi chidziwitso chotsimikizika chakuti amakukondani komanso chifukwa chomwe mwayimbira, makamaka, sichinatengedwe. Komanso, ngati panalibe chifukwa chilichonse choyimbira, ndipo mukumvetsetsa kuti mnyamatayo akuyesetsa kukulitsa zokambirana zanu, izi zikutanthauza kuti ndinu abwino kwa munthu amene mukulankhula naye.
• Akuyesa kucheza nanu pafupipafupi. Ngati mulibe msonkhano wokonzekera kapena simunawonekere pa Network kwa nthawi yayitali, amalumikizana nanu kudzera pa SMS kapena mafoni.
• Mwina pamisonkhano yapadera amachita manyazi kuyankhulanso nanu, koma amakwaniritsa izi polankhula pafoni.Achinyamata ena amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri, pokhala pafupi ndi chinthu chomumvera chisoni, choncho patali ndizosavuta kuti amupangire mtsikanayo.
• Mwina chizindikiritso chodziwikiratu ndichakuti mnyamatayo adapeza nambala yanu ya foni patsamba la ochezera a pa Intaneti, adapeza ndi abwenzi awiriwo, kapena adapeza yanjira ina yosadziwika. Komabe, ngakhale atakufunsirani nambala yanu ya foni, izi zimasonyezanso chidwi chake mosakayikira kwa munthu wanu.

Momwe mungamvetsetse zomwe mumakonda kudzera m'makalata pa intaneti

Kulemberana makalata pa intaneti kumatenga nthawi yochulukirapo, komabe, ngakhale popanda kulumikizana ndi "mnyamatayo", ndizosavuta kudziwa kuti amakukondani.

Akudikirira. Tsopano, ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri a VC ali ndi mwayi wokhala patsamba lawo m'njira yoti anzawo sangawakayikire. Ngati mutapita pa intaneti ndikuwona kuti mnyamatayo adawonekeranso pa intaneti, ngakhale kuti sanakhaleko kwa maola angapo kapena masiku kale, ndipo aka sikanali koyamba kuti izi zichitike - zikuwoneka kuti akuyembekezera inu. Zowonadi, pokhala kuti "sangawoneke", adakuwonerani mukamawoneka ku VK, ndipo izi zitangochitika, adaganiza zokhayokha.

Chidwi Utangotumiza chatsopano patsamba lanu "," chimakonda kulemba ndi zina. Zomwezo ndizofanana ndi zithunzi zanu zatsopano. Komanso, nthawi zambiri samadumphiranso pamawu ake pamawu ena. Mwambiri, zochitika zilizonse patsamba lanu sizibisika kwa iye, ndipo, izi, zikuwonetsa chidwi mwa inu.

Amagwira. Ngakhale ngati simunamulembera kaye, zimamuvuta kuchita izi. Angakhale ndi chidwi ndi momwe tsiku lanu lidayendera, ingotaya zithunzi zoseketsa kapena makanema, kukutumizirani nyimbo "khoma", funsani mafunso osiyanasiyana. Amakufunsaninso za zithunzi zomwe zikuwoneka patsamba lanu - pamene adatengedwa, yemwe ali pazithunzi ndi inu ndi zina zotero.

Amachita nsanje. Ngati nsanamira za ogwiritsa ntchito amuna amuna zikaonekera pa "khoma" lanu, akhoza kutsagana nawo ndi ndemanga zosasunthika kapena kukulemberani kena kake za izi - kuseka malowo, ingofunsani za umunthu wa mnyamatayo, ndi zina zambiri. Atha kufotokozeranso ngati mukufuna munthu. Ngati simuyankha uthengawo kwa nthawi yayitali, anena nthabwala kapena mokhumudwitsa akusonyeza kuti mulankhulana ndi munthu wosangalatsa kwambiri.

Akuyesa kusangalatsa. Mbiri yake idadzakhala zolemba zomwe zikugwirizana nanu. Mwina nthawi ina m'mbuyomu mudali kukambirana za zojambulajambula, zanema kapena zawonetsero, ndipo tsopano pa "khoma" lake pali mawu omwe akupanga mutuwu - mawu ochokera mufilimu, nyimbo, chithunzi china.

Chidwi cha abwenzi. Anzake kapena abale ake mwadzidzidzi anayamba "kukukondani" zithunzi kapena zolemba, kapenanso kuwonjezeredwa ngati abwenzi. Izi mosakayikira zikuwonetsa kuti mnyamatayo akuuza anthu ena za inu ndipo, mwachiwonekere, izi zikuchitika m'njira yabwino.

Amathandiza. Samasoweka pakumacheza nanu kwamasiku angapo. Ngati akufunika kuchoka, nthawi zambiri amayesa kukuchenjezani za izi. Amalankhulanso za mapulani ake, ngakhale simunafunse za iwo.

Ali ndi nkhawa. Ngati mwapita pa intaneti kwa masiku angapo, sizingabisike kwa iye. Mukangolowa mu VK, ayesa kudziwa pakukambirana koyamba chifukwa chomwe simunapiteko kwa nthawi yayitali.

Chizindikiro 1. Kukhalapo kwa gule m'moyo wanu

Chizindikiro chachikulu choti bambo amakukondani ndikuti mudzayamba kukumana naye modabwitsa m'malo osiyanasiyana, pezani nokha mabungwe omwewo, ndikumuwona pafupipafupi.

Zikafika poti mumagwira naye ntchito kapena kuwerenga limodzi - nthawi iliyonse mukamuwona mupezeka m'makampani, m'chipinda chodyeramo, kwina. Mwinanso ngati simukulumikizana mwachangu, ndiye kuti adzayesa kulankhula nanu, kuti adzitsimikizire mwanjira inayake.

Nthawi zina misonkhanoyi imawoneka yosasangalatsa, nthawi zina yodabwitsa kwambiri. Koma mulimonsemo, iyi ndi nkhani, kapena tsogolo - mutha kuyesa kuti mumvetsetse, koma kodi tikumakumana ndi bambo ngati uyu? Kapena kodi pali china chotitsogolera kwa wina ndi mnzake?

Osangothamangira kupanga ndikumanga zipilala mlengalenga, mukuganiza momwe mukukhala ndi ukwati, kukhala ndi ana, ndikukhalira limodzi mchikondi mosangalala pambuyo pa :) zomwe sizingachitike konse kapena zichitike, koma ndi munthu wina.

Pakadali pano ntchito yanu ndikumvetsetsa ngati mnyamatayo amakukondani, kapena ndi mlandu chabe.

Chizindikiro 2. Mphatso ndi ma tokeni

Kodi wachinyamata amakupatsani mphatso? Kodi imapereka maluwa, kodi imakusangalatsani ndi zinthu zazing'ono zokongola? Izi ngati sizichitika, ndiye kuti muyenera kuganizira mozama za izi, koma kodi amakukondani?

Kupatula apo, mphatso ndi zizindikiro za chisamaliro ndizizindikiro za ubale wa chikondi, mawonekedwe a malingaliro. Mnyamata amene amakupangirani kena kake, ndikukhala ndi chidwi - adzakhala ndi chidwi chokupatsani kena kake, kuti akusangalatseni mwanjira ina, komanso kuyamikirani. Osati m'mawu okha, komanso machitidwe - mwa mawonekedwe a mphatso.

Mwamuna akakupatsani kenakake, ndipo izi zimachitika osati pa Marichi 8, pomwe amathokoza atsikana onse, komanso popanda chifukwa - ichi ndi kale chizindikiro. Yakwana nthawi yothokoza mochokera pansi pamtima ndi kupatsa munthu wochezerayo. Ndipo onani zomwe anachita.

Ngati mukuwona kuti kumwetulira kwanu kumukondweretsadi, kumulimbikitsa, ndipo mphamvu zake zidachita bizinesi yake - pali mwayi wofuna kuchitira chidwi amuna, komanso akulu. Ngati adadziwonetsa kuti alibe chidwi, ndipo sanakhudzidwe ndi zomwe mumakukakamizani munjira iliyonse - chabwino, mwina angadzitsimikizire mu china chake.

Ndikofunikanso kuti munthuyu samangopatsa mphatso, koma china chake chimakudabwitsani. Zidadabwitsa. Izi sizotheka nthawi zonse paubwenzi, pomwe palibe chiyanjano, koma ngati izi zichitika, ndiye bingo! Mwayi woti munthu amakukondani ndiwokwera kwambiri.

Zizindikiro 3. Mawonedwe ndi kuwunikira

Ndikhulupirireni - ngati bambo kapena bambo amakukondani, ndipo mumamukonda, adzakuyang'anani. Amuna amakonda ndi maso awo, amakonda kuwona kukongola kwa mkazi, chisomo chake ndi mawonekedwe ake, chithunzi, ndi zina zotero.

Chifukwa chake, kumbali yanu, kuti muwone zizindikiro za chidwi ndi chikondi choyamba, zonse zomwe mukusowa ndikusamala kwambiri. Yesetsani nthawi ndi nthawi kuti musinthe. Mukuwona chiyani?

Ngati, nthawi ndi nthawi mumadziyang'ana nokha, nthawi zina mumachita manyazi, nthawi zina mumasokonezeka, nthawi zina mumafunitsitsa kudziwa - zikuwonekeratu kuti mnyamatayo akukuyang'anani. Mukaziyang'ana, zikutanthauza kuti ali ndi chidwi, ndipo amakukondani. A Guys samawononga chidwi chawo ndi nthawi yawo pa atsikana omwe siabwino kwa iwo.

Kodi mukudziwa kuti kuyanjana kwanu ndi mwamuna ndi chiyani?

Kuti mudziwe, dinani batani lili pansipa.

Koma omwe amakonda - amuna amakoka ngati maginito, kapena ngati mumadzozedwa ndi uchi))

Mwamuna sangathe kukana kuyesererako kuti akuyang'ane mobwerezabwereza ndikukuyang'anani, ndipo ndizotheka nthawi izi kuti "agwidwe" ndikumatengedwa kumadzi oyera.
Koma ngati mungayang'ane kumbuyo ndi mtsogolo mu chipinda chimodzi ndi inu, ngakhale sanayang'ane maso ake ndikuyang'ana kwina kulikonse, osati kwa inu, imeneyo ndi nthawi yoganiza mozama: kodi amakukondani? Mwina ambiri simumamukonda ndipo alibe chidwi?

Chizindikiro cha 4. Khama ndi changu cha munthu

Mnyamata amene amakonda chibwenzi ndi mtsikana, kapena akaona mtsikana yemwe angafune kukumana naye pafupipafupi, akhoza kukhala ngati wimp - ndipo amangokhala chete osachita chilichonse. Kapenanso adzayesa.

Kodi akutanthauza chiyani kuyesera? Mudzamvetsetsa ndikuwona!

Kumbukirani chinthu chachikulu - mayendedwe anu amatanthauza zambiri kwa bambo, koma ngati palibe mgwirizano pamlingo wazizindikiro, ndiye kuti ubalewo udzakhala wosasangalatsa.Ndikofunika kwambiri kudziwa kuti ndizoyenerana ndi zodiac yanu ndi chizindikiritso cha munthu. Izi zitha kuchitika podina batani pansipa:

Adzayesetsa kulankhula nanu, kukhala nanu nthawi, kukwaniritsa zokhumba zanu, kumvetsera kwa inu, ndi kuchita zonse zomwe zimadalira iye - mukadakhala kuti mumamvetsera kwa iye.

Uku ndi kulimbika ndi changu. Ndipo apa zilibe kanthu kuti bambo ndi wolemera kapena ayi, ndikofunikira kuti ayesetse motani pazinthu zomwe ali nazo pakadali pano. Kupatula apo, mukufuniranji kukumana ndi munthu yemwe, mwachitsanzo, ali wolemera, koma nthawi yomweyo samasamala za inu, ndipo amakuwona kuti ndinu hule wotsika mtengo, ndipo sakukugulirani ndikuwononga ndalama, nthawi ndi zinthu zina pa inu?

Zizindikiro 5. Kuyankha pazofunsira

Kodi bambowo amatani ataona kuti wamufunsira zinazake? Kodi akwaniritsa pempho lanu, kapena adzakhala wosayanja kwambiri?

Yesetsani kum'funsa zina, ndikutsatira zomwe achite. Ngati munthu ayesa ndipo atero, mwina amakukondani. Sanachitepo kanthu, ndipo adangopezera chifukwa choti palibe zotsatira - mwina simunayanjane naye.

Iyi ndi njira yosavuta komanso yothandiza yodziwira malingaliro a abambo. Gwiritsani ntchito mwanzeru. Chachikulu ndichakuti musayesere kuyika mavuto anu onse kwa munthuyu musanayambe chibwenzi chilichonse, ndipo yankho lawo - apo ayi hatchiyo ingamwalire, ndipo asankhe zomwe helo amafuna - popeza iye anawuluka kwambiri.

Chizindikiro 6. Mawu ozindikira, achikondi, othokoza

Ndi mawu achikondi ndi kuzindikira - muyenera kukhala osamala. Kumbali imodzi - inde, akuwonetsa chidwi cha mwamunayo, ndipo zikuonekeratu kuti akukufunani ndipo akufuna kukhala nanu. Sizokayikitsa kuti mnyamatayo angakhale wofunitsitsa chifukwa cha msungwana yemwe samakusangalatsani.

Koma, kumbali ina, zimanenedwa kuti ndibwino kusamveranso munthu! Inde, zomwe anyamatawa anena ndi izi: "blah blah blah." Kupatula apo, mawu sakutanthauza chilichonse! Awa ndi mawu chabe, ndipo pafupifupi aliyense akhoza kunena kanthu.

Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri ndi chiyani? Chofunika ndichakuti gululi limachita bwanji ndi zomwe limakuchitirani! Ndibwereza - zimakuchitirani inu, osati monga choncho. Kupatula apo, ngati akuchitira mkazi wina, kapena iye - ndiye kuti agwiritsa ntchito?

Chifukwa chake, mawu a munthu aliyense ayenera kuzindikirika ndi chisangalalo ndi nthabwala. Ndimalingalira ndekha, "Lankhulani, lankhulani, koma tiwone zomwe mungachite mu zenizeni."

Ndipo onaninso - mwina mnyamatayo amachita zinazake zenizeni, ndipo mumamuyamika, kapena mawu ake ndi mawu chabe, ndipo mpweya suwoneka - ndipo sakwaniritsa malonjezo ake. Pankhaniyi, ndibwino kuthawa munthu wotero. Kupatula apo, sanakhale munthu weniweni, ndipo osati kuti tsiku lina adzatero.
Mwa njira, amuna ambiri amakhala chete kwambiri, ndipo atha kutseka, koma osakana. Ndizotheka kuti iye adzakhala bambo kapena bambo wabwino mtsogolo, chifukwa adzatero, m'malo macheza, ndikutsanulira molira m'makutu anu kuchokera pamawu okoma ndi kuyamikirana.

Zizindikiro 7. Maonekedwe a nkhope, manja ndi manyazi

Ndikovuta kwenikweni kubisa chidwi chanu kwa munthu amene mumamukonda. Ngati mukuyankhula ndi munthu, ndiye muyenera kungomva kuti sakuchita bwino.

Nthawi zina zimatha kukhala zochititsa manyazi, ngakhale zimawoneka ngati palibe chifukwa, nthawi zina nkhope yake imasowa kapena kuchita mantha.

Pali zizindikiro zazing'ono komanso zowoneka bwino, pamawonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe aunyamata, zomwe zimakupangitsani - izi sizophweka, ndipo mwina amandiganizira, ndikumvera chisoni.

M'malo mwake, atsikana nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi lingaliro lamphamvu kwambiri, ndipo amamva zinthu zotere pamlingo wokhudzika. Maubwenzi ndi kavalo wachikazi, kotero mwina mumangofunika kulankhulanso pang'ono ndi mwamuna, kenako zonse zidzaonekera poyera. Ngati mulibe kulumikizana, mutha kupeza zifukwa zina, ndikulankhula pamitu yosiyanasiyana yayikulu.Ndipo yang'anani zomwe amunayo akuchita, ndi momwe akumvera.

Zizindikiro 8. Mankhwala opatsa ulemu

Ngati munthu amangokoka “nkhumba”, kapena kunena mawu akuthwa, mwakutero posonyeza chidwi chake, ndiye kuti ndi mwana wabwinobwino. Mwamuna weniweni, ngati amakonda mkazi, amachita naye mosamala komanso molimba mtima.

Ndiye kuti, mwamunayo akumvetsa kufunika kwanu kuti mukhale ndiulemu komanso moyenera ndi inu, ndipo azitsatira miyambo iyi. Komabe, izi sizitanthauza kuti bambo azigwada pansi pa mkazi, kulolera komanso kulolera chilichonse. Zachidziwikire, bambo ayenera kukhala wolimba mokwanira, wokhala ndi pakati, ndipo nthawi zina amapanga zisankho ndikuchita molimba mtima, osakulolani kuti musinthe.

Koma munthu amene amakukonda sangachite izi mokondweretsa, koma mwanjira yoti inunso mungakonde.

Sign 9. nthabwala ndi nthabwala za abwenzi

Pali chizindikiro china chosadziwika kuti munthuyo amakukondani. Ndipo izi ndi zomwe abwenzi ake amachita. Zimachitika kuti achinyamata amagawana malingaliro awo ndi abwenzi, kapena abwenzi amazindikira mawonekedwe awo achilendo, ndikumvetsa chifukwa chake.

Poterepa, ngati mungathe kulumikizana ndi abwenzi a chibwenzi, ndizotheka kuti nthabwala zingapo ndi nthabwala zanu zikagwera.

Nthawi zina amatha kukhala osavulaza, nthawi zina owopsa komanso osasangalatsa. Koma mulimonsemo - ngati apita, ndiye kuti pali chifukwa. Mwina abwenzi adazindikira kuti mnyamatayo anali kuchita zachilendo, ndipo koposa zonse kwa inu - ndipo "adamuwona".

Izi zikachitika - iyi ndi belu kwa inu za chidwi cha bambo. Mutha kuyankhulanso ndi anzanu mwachindunji, koma yesani kuchita izo mosamala. Chifukwa, kachiwiri - atha kumusamutsira iye, ndikufotokozera m'njira zosokonekera, monga mumamukonda. Ndipo pomwepo bambowo atha kuyamba kuchita zosayenera, ndikuphunzira za chidwi chanu.

Chizindikiro 10. Ngati munthu amakukondani - amakufunani

Ndipo chizindikiro chomaliza ndi chinsinsi, chomwe ndi chosavuta - ndipo makamaka chothandiza kwambiri. Ngati bambo amakukondani, ndiye kuti simudzakhala mukufunsa kuti: "Momwe mungamvetse - kodi ndimakonda kapena sindimakonda?".

Chifukwa mwamuna weniweni amawonetsa momwe akumvera, ayambe kukusamalirani ndikukufunafunani ndi mphamvu zake zonse. Tithana ndi zopinga, zovuta, mavuto. Adzakusamalirani, perekani mphatso, itanani kwina.

Mwambiri, bambo kapena munthu yemwe amakukondani kwambiri adzachitapo kanthu! Ndipo musakhale kumbuyo ndikudziyimbira ndekha kuti uyu ndi mtsikana wokongola komanso wosangalatsa, ndipo ndine wolephera, kotero sindingathe kumuuza za izi.

Ndibwerezanso - ngati mukufuna yankho la funsolo - momwe mungamvetsetsere, ndiye kuti ndizotheka kwambiri - munthuyo samakukondani. Zitha kumveka zamwano, kapena wankhanza - koma ndi zoona.

Kapenanso amakukondani, koma adakali wofooka kwambiri ndipo amakhala ngati mwana, m'malo momangodzionetsa ngati munthu. Ndipo bwanji mumamufuna pamenepo? Anachita manyazi kubwera kwa inu ndikuyamba kulankhula, kapena anali ndi manyazi kuyamba kukusamalirani - ndipo pamene ma gopniks atakugwirani pachipata, kodi apitanso pambali ndipo "adzachita manyazi"?

Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndi mwamuna weniweni, wamphamvu komanso wosamala, kapena wamavuto osamveka? Ganizirani izi.

Ndipo ndizotheka kuti mukapumula ndikuzindikira kuti sikofunika kusamba ngati wina amakukondani kapena sakukonda, ndiye kuti mnyamatayo kapena munthu yemwe mungakhale wokongola kwambiri amadzitsimikizira! Ndipo mudzakhala otsimikiza kuti chidwi chawo chili nawo, chifukwa zidzaonekeratu!

Kumbukirani chinthu chachikulu: sikofunikira kufunsa funso "momwe mungamvetsetsere ngati munthu wamwamuna kapena wamwamuna amakukondani?" - osapindulitsa. Chifukwa munthu amene ali paubwenzi ayenera kukhala wothandizabe nthawi zonse. Ayenera kukufunani, ayenera kukuchitirani kena kake kuti mumuzindikire, ayenera kudziwonetsa yekha ndikukhala ngati munthu.

Inunso, muyenera kungoyang'ana machitidwe ake - ndipo mungavomereze zabwino kapena kukana zoyipa, popewa zolakwika komanso zosayenera mukuyenderana ndi inu. Ndizo zonse! Ndipo ingokhala pachibwenzi, ngati chilipo.

Ngati mungathamangitse munthu amene sakukondani, mwina mutha kupeza naye ndikuyamba ubale naye. Koma pachibwenzi ichi, “nthawi zonse mumakoka ngolo” yaubwenzi wanu, pomwe bambo wanu adzakhala pampando, ndikupuma. Kodi mumachifuna?

Ndikwabwino kungokhala otakataka, owala, kuyang'ana maonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe anu - ndipo bambo kapena bambo adzakopeka ndi moyo wanu, pomwe simudzifunsa funso - kodi amandikonda? Dziwani kuti amakukondani - 100%!

Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi bambo wanu wokondedwa - muyenera kudziwa ngati mukugwirizana ndi chizindikiro cha zodiac?

Dziwani momwe mungagwirizane ndi bambo - podina batani pansipa:

Momwe mungamvetsetse kuti munthu akamakukondani ndiye zizindikiro zazikulu

Pali zizindikiro zazikulu zingapo zomwe munthu amakukondani kusukulu:

• Kusintha kwamakhalidwe. Mnyamata akakukonda, machitidwe ake amayamba kusintha. Izi zitha kumveka polankhula komanso polankhula. Amakhala woyankhula kwambiri: amayamba kuyankhula zambiri za iye, kudzitamandira kuti awonetse, kapena, mmalo mwake, kutseka ndikuyamba kuchita manyazi komanso manyazi.

• Kuchulukitsa - Chilankhulo chapadera cha thupi chomwe nthawi zina chimathandizira kuzindikira zomwe munthu akumva komanso zomwe akufuna. Yesani kumuyang'ana: momwe amaonera inu zitha kuwonetsedwa pakukhudza. Amatha kugwira dzanja lanu, tsitsi lanu - ichi ndi chizindikiro chowonekera kuti mumamukonda. Amayeseranso nthawi zonse kukuthandizani kusukulu, kumayandikira pafupipafupi komanso kukhala pafupi. Ntchito yanu ndikuwona.

• Maonekedwe. Monga mukudziwa, maso samanama. Yesani kukumana ndi maso ake ndikutsatira zomwe akuchitazi. Ngati atatsegula maso ake, zingatanthauze kuti ndi wamanyazi, kapena kuti sakukonderani. Munthu amene amakukondani sadzakulolani kuti akuoneni, amakuwonerani, koma abiseni mosamala.
• Mawonekedwe. Mnyamata akafuna kusangalatsa mtsikana, amayesetsa kuti amukope. Akuyesera kuvala bwino, kupanga tsitsi labwino, ambiri amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zonunkhira za amuna kuti akope.

• Kulankhula ndi atsikana ena. Nthawi zambiri, pofuna kusangalatsa mtsikanayo kuti amakonda komanso kukopa chidwi, mnyamatayo amayamba kumuchititsa nsanje. Akuyesera kulumikizana molakwika ndi kudziyalutsa ndi atsikana ena kuti amukhumudwitse.

Ngati nthawi yomweyo mnyamatayo akuwoneka komwe akupita ndipo mutanyamuka muimitsa kuyankhulana ndi atsikanayo, ndiye kuti pali umboni wowoneka kuti akufuna kukopa chidwi chanu.

• Kuchulukitsa chidwi. Munthu amene amakukondani amasangalatsa m'njira iliyonse. Izi zimatha kudziwonetsa munjira zambiri. Adzakukwiyitsani, kumamatira, mpaka, kukupezani zifukwa, kapena, mosatchulika dzina, kufunsani kena kake, kufunsa, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale thandizo.

• Kukonda chidwi. Pali zochitika ngati kuti munthu, wakuopa kudziwonetsa yekha ndikumapereka zakukhosi kwake, amayamba kubisala mosamala ndikuwonetsa kuti alibe chidwi, nthawi zina amachita kunyalanyaza. Apa, yesetsani kukhala osamala kwambiri, mutha kuwonetsa kulimba mtima ndikufunsa momasuka kuti ndichifukwa chiyani pamakhalidwe awa.

Momwe mungadziwire kuti cholembera chimakukondani

Intaneti ndi yokhazikika m'miyoyo ya anthu ndipo sinangokhala chidziwitso chambiri, komanso njira yabwino yophunzitsira komanso kulumikizana. Pali njira zingapo zomvetsera ngati cholembera amakukondani.

Ngati munthu wakulemberani pafupipafupi, amatumiza zithunzi zamitundu yonse ndi nyimbo, amakhala ali pa intaneti nthawi zonse, ndipo amafulumira kukhumba inu usiku wabwino - zonsezi zimalankhula ndi mtima wofuna kucheza nanu.

Njira zabwino zodziwira kuti amumvere ndi kutsatira zomwe adalemba komanso mtundu womwe amatumizira. Mwakulemberana makalata mutha kuwerengetsa momwe amakukonderani.

Ngati akuwonetsa chidwi ndi chisamaliro, ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe tsiku lanu lidayendera komanso momwe mukumvera - ndiye ichi ndichizindikiro kuti sakuderani nkhawa.

Chifukwa cha kulumikizana pa intaneti, anthu amadziwana. Kudziwa kumeneku, komwe kumayamba kulumikizana, nthawi zambiri kumakhala ndi tsiku lenileni.

Momwe mungamvetsetse ndi mawonekedwe kuti munthu amakukondani

Monga akunena kuti: "Maso ndi kalilore wa moyo", chifukwa chake, poyang'ana mutha kudziwa zomwe munthu akukumana nanu. Nthawi zambiri, ngati munthu amakonda mtsikana, amakhala akusaka zifukwa zomamuyang'ana.

Koma mumamvetsetsa bwanji poyang'ana, kodi mumakonda munthu? Yesani kuyang'ana munthu wina kwa masekondi 1-2, akugwira maso. Ngati samayang'ana kutali, akumwetulira - ndiye kuti amakukondani. Ngati mnyamatayo adatsekereza maso ake, ndiye kuti mwina amachita nanu manyazi, kapena alibe chidwi nanu.

Dziwani za momwe amakuonerani mukamacheza. Kupatula apo, maonekedwe a mwamuna mchikondi ndi mawu abwino ndipo amayankha mafunso anu bwino kuposa mawu aliwonse.

Momwe mungadziwire ngati munthu amakukondani kusukulu

Ngati mumakonda munthu wochokera kusukulu ndipo simukudziwa momwe akumvera, yesani kumuyang'ana. Onani momwe amakuyang'anani, momwe amalumikizirana ndi inu. Yesani pa nthawi yopuma kuti muwonetse chidwi kwa iye. Mupangitseni chidwi.

Fotokozerani kuti mumamukonda. Guys amakonda kuyamikira, chifukwa izi zimawapatsa chidaliro. Amachita manyazi pakadali pano ndipo amakonda kubisa momwe akumvera. Ngati mumaona kuti amakukondani, yesani kuchitapo kanthu panokha.

Koma ngati vutolo silikudziwika, ndipo simukudziwa momwe amakuchitirani, yesani kumuyimbira kuti alankhule. Yesani kupita naye kunyumba, kapena kukhala nokha mkalasi.

Onani zomwe azikamba. Amatha kubisala mosamala momwe akumvera, kuwonetsa chidwi, ndikuchotsa maso ake, kuchita manyazi komanso kukhala chete, kotero yang'anani iye.

Momwe mungapangire munthu kuti amvetsetse kuti amakukondani - malangizo

Ngati mungaganize zolimbikitsa munthu za momwe akumvera ndipo sakudziwa momwe angachitire, yesani kugwiritsa ntchito maupangiri:

• Sonyezani chidwi ndi chisamaliro. Mutha kuyang'ana mothandizidwa ndi mawonekedwe ndi kumwetulira komwe akupita. Ngati simukudziwa bwino mnyamatayo, yesani kumulonjera tsiku lina ndikumwetulira. Izi zimapereka mwayi wophunzitsana komanso kuyandikira pafupi.

• Sonyezani chikondi chanu mwa kumayamika. Yamikirani. Koma musati mopitirira muyezo!

• Yesetsani kumuthandiza pamavuto aliwonse. Kusamalira ndi kuthandizira mwaubwenzi ndi njira yabwino yopezera munthu pafupi ndi inu.

• Yesetsani kuyandikira kwa iye (khalani pafupi ndi tebulo limodzi, pitani kunyumba limodzi kapena paulendo wopita kumalo ena). Koma musakakamizidwe!

• Gwiritsani ntchito nthabwala. Nthabwala nthawi zonse zimabweretsa anthu pamodzi. Khalani oseketsa, koma odzipereka. Sayenera kukhala yabodza kapena yabodza m'makhalidwe awo.

• Chezani naye pafupipafupi. Dziwani zomwe amakonda. Yambitsani kukambirana pamitu yomwe imakusangalatsani. Mutha kuphunzira mwachidziwikire zofunikira pankhaniyi ndikuwonetsa zomwe mukudziwa. Zokonda zodziwika zimabweretsa anthu pamodzi. Ndipo ndikofunikira kwambiri ngati anthu ali ndi nkhani yoti ayankhule. Ndiyetu.

• Khalani nokha. Palibenso chifukwa chosewerera. Kuti musangalatse munthu, muyenera kungokhala wachilengedwe komanso wowona mtima. Zakhala zamtengo wapatali komanso zosangalatsa.

• Ngati ndinu mtsikana wolimba mtima komanso wolimba mtima, mutha kumasula, koma mwamseri (mwina ngakhale kunja kwa sukulu), afotokozereni zakukhosi kwanu. Koma osadikirira chilichonse kuti chibweze. Ingokhalani achilungamo komanso oona mtima.

Momwe mungamvetsetse kuti munthu amakukondani ngati simukulankhula

Ngati simukumudziwa mnyamatayo, ndipo simudziwa momwe angamvetsetsere ngati amamukonda, yesani kulankhula naye kaye. Yambani ndi moni, ndipo nthawi iliyonse, kumulonjera kapena kumulonjera, kumwetulira komanso kuyang'ana bwino.

Njira iyi ndi mwayi wabwino kuyambitsa kulumikizana. Pambuyo pake, yesani kumuyandikira. Mutha kupita limodzi kukadya nkhomaliro, kapena kunyumba. Njirayi imakupatsani mwayi wokhala nokha, chifukwa chake, phunzirani bwino za wina ndi mnzake.

Khalani olimba mtima ndikuyamba kuchita nokha m'manja, chifukwa anyamatawa ndi amanyazi pang'ono komanso amanyazi.

Mukayamba kukondana ndi munthu wina ndikupanga naye ubale, mutha kuyamba kumuwonetsa mosamala ziwonetsero zake, zomwe zimatha kudziwonetsa momasuka. Ndipo kenako - onani momwe amakuyang'anani, ndi momwe amakuchitirani. Ndipo chitanipo kanthu!

Momwe mungadziwire kuti mtsikana amakukondani 7 zizindikiro

Ngati mumakonda msungwana, zilibe kanthu kuti kusukulu kapena kuyunivesite, ndipo mukufuna kudziwa zomwe akumvetsetsa, yesani kumuyang'ana. Atsikana amasintha akamakonda munthu, ndipo sangathe kubisa momwe akumvera.

Chifukwa chake, izi ndi zizindikiro zochepa zomwe mtsikana amakukondani:

1. Msungwana amene mumakonda amakuwonerani nthawi zonse. Amatha kuwonetsa chidwi chake mosiyanasiyana: kuseka, kupweteka, nthabwala, kapena mosinthana, nthawi zonse yesetsani kuyambitsa kukambirana nanu, kumwetulira, kusangalala komanso kuyamika.

2. Nthawi zina mtsikana amapereka malingaliro ake mothandizidwa ndi kukhudza kwake. Kupatula apo, zimadziwika kuti palibe mtsikana amene angakhudze galu ngati alibe chidwi ndi iye, chifukwa chake, ngati amakukonda, amafufuza njira zakukhudzira ndikusokoneza malo ako.

3. Maonekedwe. Mtsikana amene mumafuna adzakuyang'anani mosiyana. Maonekedwe adzakhala ofatsa komanso olandirira. Amadzakuyang'ana nthawi ndi nthawi, choncho uzitsatira.

4. Zokambirana. Samalani pazomwe akukufunsani. Ngati akuwonetsa chidwi ndipo afunsa mafunso ambiri, ndiye kuti mwachidziwikire amakukondani.

5. Mtsikana yemwe amakukonda adzayang'ana chifukwa choimbira, kudzakumana. Amakulemberani ma sms, kapena amakonda kucheza nanu pa intaneti.

6. Chithandizo chochokera kwa iye, chidwi chochulukirapo, nkhawa - zonsezi zikusonyeza kuti samakukonderani.

Ngati mtsikana akumvera chisoni kapena kukonda, ndikosavuta kudziwa momwe amakuwonera. Maso amaonetsa zomwe munthu akumva, choncho yang'anirani.

Monga mwachizolowezi, guleyo amawonetsa kuti amamumvera chisoni

Ngati munthu amakukondani, nthawi yomweyo mudzazindikira izi kuchokera pazizindikiro zotsatirazi:

• Ali ndi chidwi ndi nambala yanu ya foni ndi momwe mungapezere VK. Mukakumana pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, amayambitsa msonkhano. Mwina iye, atatha kulumikizana payekha, popanda mafunso ena, adapeza tsamba lake mu VK mwiniwake - ichi ndichizindikiro chowonekerachi chomumvera chisoni.
• Nthawi zonse mumayang'ana kwa inu, kukhala mu kampani yomweyo, ku sinema kapena kuyenda. Akuyesera kuyang'ana m'maso mwanu. Pakadali pano, amatha kuyang'ana mwadzidzidzi, ndikuchita manyazi.
• Sichosadabwitsa, koma machitidwe oterewa amathanso kuwonetsa kuti bambo wachinyamata amakukondani. Mwina sadziwa choti anganene kuti akusangalatse kapena akuopa kulankhula zinthu zopusa, chifukwa chake sayesa kuyambitsa kukambirana nanu. Monga lamulo, gule akhoza kusiyana muzochita mu kampani, koma ngati mungosiyidwa nokha, ayesa kudzitsimikizira mwanjira ina.
• Akufuna kuti mumve kukhala wopepuka komanso womasuka pamaso pake, ndipo chifukwa cha izi amafuna kuti onse ake athandizike. Izi zikachitika mu gulu linalake, pamenepo, mwa zina, mnyamatayo mwina akufuna kuti adzilimbikitse pamaso panu, kuwonetsa kuti mwina iye ndi "mzimu wa kampaniyo."
• Ngati m'modzi mwa mnzake alola kukunyozani kapena nthabwala za inu, mnyamatayo amalabadira izi, kuyesa kusinthitsa kukambirana kwina. Ndizotheka kuti mwakankhidwa mwadzidzidzi pagulu la alendo kapena mlendo wina atayesa kuyambitsa kukambirana nanu - mwina, munthu yemwe mumafuna ayesetsa kulowererapo, kuonetsetsa kuti palibe amene akupweteketsani inu kapena "kutembenutsanso" mwayi watsopano wokonda.
• Akungoganiza ngati muli ndi wokondedwa komanso kuti chibwenzi chatha chatha. Amatha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi izi mosadziwika bwino, kufunsa mafunso osadziwika. Mwachitsanzo, ayamba kulankhula za malo ena abwino, ndikuwonjeza kuti: "Pita kumeneko ndi chibwenzi chako." M'malo mwake, poyankha, akuyembekeza kumva kuti simuli pachibwenzi.

Momwe mungalimbikitsire kumvera ena chisoni

1. Khalani ndi chidwi naye. Funsani za momwe tsiku lake linayendera, amakonda nyimbo zamtundu wanji. Fotokozeraninso mtundu wa makanema omwe amakonda, zomwe amakonda, komwe amakonda kupitako.

2. Mukakumana ndi chinthu chomumvera chisoni, yesani kuwoneka bwino. Zovala zanu zisakhale zopanda malingaliro, koma tsindikani mbali zanu zopambana. Musaiwale za tsatanetsatane - manicure, tsitsi, mawonekedwe abwino. Ngati kulankhulana kwanu kukuchitika pa intaneti, ndiye yesani kuwonjezera zithunzi zopambana kwambiri nthawi zambiri.

3. Muthokozeni nthawi zambiri. Tamandani zomwe amakonda, nyimbo zakunja (tsitsi, maonekedwe amaso, chithunzi, ndi zina), mufunseni kuti afotokozere filimu, ndikuthokoza chifukwa chosankha.

4. Khalani ochezeka polankhulana naye - kumwetulira, onetsani chidwi pamutu womwe adakhudza, osasokoneza ndipo musanyalanyaze.

5. Muwonetse kuti ndiwe munthu wosinthasintha wogwiritsa ntchito zomwe sakonda. Lowani nawo maphunziro ena, makalasi apamwamba, makalasi olimbitsa thupi kapena kuvina. Khalani m'malo osiyanasiyana nthawi zambiri, mukutchula izi pokambirana ndi mnyamata.

6. Muuzeni kuti simuli muubwenzi uliwonse. Ngati mukufuna kuti munthu amene mukufuna kuti azichita zambiri azilankhula naye mwachilungamo. Inde, izi sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kunyalanyaza mafani ena. Ingowonetsani mnyamatayo kuti ndiye amene amakukondweretsani.

7. Muwonetseni chidwi, koma osakhala osasamala, yang'anirani muyezo. Nthawi ndi nthawi, mutha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zochitika zake mu VK, koma ngati sakulitsa mutuwo, ndiye kum'mamatira. Muloleni adziwe kuti sakukukondweretsani, koma simudzakakamiza.

8. Ngati zikuwoneka kuti akukusamalirani pang'ono, ndipo akhoza kukhala wolimbikira, musamuwuze ndipo musanene zonena zake. Mwina sangazindikire kuti mukuyembekeza zinthu zoyenera kuchita kuchokera kwa iye, ndipo mutha kuzindikira kuti sanachite mwano, koma mokopa.

9. Mupempheni kwinakwake - ingomupeza khofi mu cafe, ku sinema, pa ayezi kapena poyenda paki. Nenani kuti panali maola angapo aulere, ndipo mudali ndi lingaliro la kumuimbira kapena kumulembera izi. Ndikofunika kuti ngati nthawi ino munthuyu sangakhale wotanganidwa ndi chilichonse.

Mungamveke bwanji kuti palibe kubwereza

Kunena mwachindunji. Muimbireni foni kuti mulankhule mosavomerezeka ndipo vomerezani kuti kumverana kwanu sikumangokhala kucheza chabe.

Malangizokuti mwakonda mnyamata wina, ndipo simukufuna kupanga ubale ndi wina aliyense.

Osamusonyeza chidwi, yankhani mafunso ake mwachidule komanso mouma, musafunse mafunso otsutsa.

M'mawebusayiti Osayankha kwa mauthenga ake nthawi yomweyo. Dikirani kwakanthawi, kenako ndikuyankha monosyllabic kapena musayankhe konse ngati, mwachidziwikire, uthengawo ulibe funso mwachindunji. Osamamulembera kaye.

Khalani omasuka kucheza ndi anthu ena achichepere limodzi naye kapena kukambirana za munthu yemwe mumakonda.

Kukana misonkhano mwamseri. Ngati mukuyenera kukumana mu kampani, ndiye musamamuyang'anire kuposa ena.